Her face looked ugly in the attempt to avoid tears; it was an ugliness which bound him to her more than any beauty could have done. It isn't being happy together, he thought as though it were a fresh discovery, that makes one love--it's being unhappy together.

Graham Greene
About This Quote

The opening line of William Saroyan’s The Human Comedy alludes to the idea that it isn’t happiness that makes us love another person, but rather, our unhappiness. This is an important point because many people get married and move in together with the idea that they will eventually find happiness with their partner. However, this rarely ends up being the case. Instead, they find that they are unhappy and blame their unhappiness on their partner. This quote is a reminder that when we are in a relationship, we should be looking for a sense of dissatisfaction.

Source: The Ministry Of Fear

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